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The Men's Movement and the Fathers' Movement
are not the same thing. The Men's Movement, which the NZ Equality
Education Foundation supports, sees Fathers' Rights as just one aspect
of Men's Rights. For that reason, the NZEEF also supports Fathers' Rights
wholeheartedly.
However, it is time for the Men's Rights Movement to stop being the
poor relation of the Fathers' Rights Movement. The Fathers' Rights Movement
is bigger than the Men's Rights Movement, for the simple reason that
most men see no reason to fight the cumulative changes that combine
to oppress them -- until they are dispossessed of their children, assets
and/or liberty when their relationships break down.
Intellectual Bankruptcy
Unfortunately, many of the men who lose out in the Family Court and
join the Fathers' Movement are not very educated, articulate, or politically
aware. Women tend to treat men as support-objects, and it is a typical
scenario for a woman to dump a relatively uneducated man because he
is not rich enough for her -- e.g. he has become unemployed. These sorts
of men seem to be over-represented in the Fathers' Movement.
Because of the intellectual calibre of its members, the Fathers'
Movement has no real understanding of the issues. It concentrates on
attempting to change laws, when in fact Feminist ideology is being taught,
by various agencies, to all the professionals who administer the laws,
and it is this Feminist bias which is the main determiner of the outcomes
that the Fathers' Movement complains about. This is why Feminist ideology
must be attacked full-on, despite the cowardice and stupidity of many
fathers, who are unable or unwilling to see anything wrong with Feminism.
The Fathers' Movement also has no real ideology, apart from a general
conservatism and a wish to preserve or strengthen family values. This
is not sufficient to attract new adherents. Its members are more likely
to be religious than the rest of society, but there are many religions
and sects these days, and not many people in the West are religious
anyway, so this provides no unity or driving force for the Fathers'
Movement.
The Fathers' Movement is merely a reaction to the situation in which
many fathers have found themselves, but the Men's Movement is composed
of men who are there because they have actually thought about the issues.
Only the Men's Movement can develop a coherent ideology that will bring
to men and fathers the sorts of political victories that having a coherent
ideology brought to the Women's Movement. Many good books have been
written about Men's Issues -- I suggest you read some of them, including
"Sex, Lies & Feminism."
Moral Bankruptcy
Fathers who join the Fathers' Movement tend to be wrapped up in their
own -- very serious -- problems. They join the Fathers' Movement mainly
in order to see if their own situation can be improved. This selfishness
is not an attractive trait, and it does nothing to attract sympathy
for the cause from other people.
Those that come from a working-class background are often hostile
towards intellectuals, which alienates them from powerful middle-class
institutions such as the bureaucracy and the education system, where
respect for intellectuals is deeply ingrained. The intense homophobia
of many in the Fathers' Movement alienates the homosexual movement and
drives it even more solidly into the arms of the Feminists. This gives
the Feminists a public relations halo -- being the protectors of defenceless
homosexuals against the queer-bashers in the Fathers' Movement. This
apparent altruism of the Feminists contrasts starkly with the intense
selfishness of the Fathers' Movement.
See also: dadawake.html
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