30. August 2000
Re: Assault by Female
On July 8th 2000 Mr. Kevin Rutter was assaulted
and abused by his former wife, Miss Hazel Walker. It had been arranged
by the parties respective legal counsel for Miss Walker to attend
Mr. Rutters home to uplift personal items. It had also been arranged
for Miss Walker to have her mother present as support person.
I live as a paying guest in Mr. Rutters home and
had just arrived back at 1015 with my 2 daughters, aged 11 and 7. Miss
Walker had arrived some seconds beforehand and had three persons with
her her mother, her sister, and an unknown male. They had arrived
in a truck and that truck was parked in the driveway, blocking in Mr.
Rutters car.
Mr. Rutters fiancée Mrs. Vacharakiet came
to me and asked if she could remain in my room with my daughters until
she could leave the property. Apparently the respective parties had
agreed that Mrs. Vacharakiet was not to be present at this time, but
neither Mr. Rutter or Mrs. Vacharakiet or Mr. Rutters counsel
had been informed of when Miss walker would attend the property.
Mrs. Vacharakiet asked me if I would arrange for the
truck to be moved so she could leave in the car. I went upstairs. Mr.
Rutter, Miss walker, and her support persons were in the kitchen and
Miss Walker was rummaging through the kitchen cupboards for some personal
possessions. As I entered the kitchen, I saw Miss Walker rush at MR.
Rutter, stopping right in front of him, hitting him with her arm, and
raising her leg as if to knee him in the groin. Mr. Rutter did not react.
Miss Walkers support persons witnessed this assault also. Apparently
Mr. Rutter had requested Miss walker to repack items taken from the
drawers/cupboards and left discarded on the floor.
Miss walker then went into the computer room to look
for items. Mr. Rutter and Miss Walkers mother also went into the
room. I heard Miss walker abusing Mr. Rutter and obviously trying to
goad Mr. Rutter into an action detrimental to his best interests. Mr.
Rutter began to respond to Miss Walkers taunting and abuse, and
I therefore went into the room and advised Mr. Rutter to leave the room.
I then advised Miss Walker of Mr. Rutters rights under the law,
and I was going to ensure she did not abuse him. Miss Walker then verbally
abused me. I informed Miss Walker that should her behaviour continue
I would ring the Police and have them remove her from the property.
Some 30 minutes or so later, Miss Walker, Mr. Rutter,
Miss Walkers mother, and sister were in the workshop downstairs.
I was in the adjacent laundry looking through the doorway. Miss Walker
again abused Mr. Rutter and tried to goad him into a response. When
I advised Mr. Rutter not to respond Miss walker tried to talk me down,
and when I ignored her actions she told me to F...k off.
Later in the day Mr. Rutter went to the Avondale Police
Station and spoke to Constable McNair. After some discussion Constable
McNair noted some details in his notebook and stated to Mr. Rutter that
the Police would speak to Miss Walker in respect of her behaviour. However,
Constable McNair did not ask pertinent details such as Miss Walkers
name, address, or telephone number. Constable McNair also informed Mr.
Rutter the Police would not investigate his complaint as the Court would
not find against a female assaulting a male He did however agree that
had the situation been reversed he would have had no option other than
to arrest Mr. Rutter for assault.
Upon hearing this later in the afternoon, I rang the
Avondale Police Station and spoke to a Sergeant in the Watch House.
He was aware of Mr. Rutters complaint but told me the Court would
not find a female guilty of assaulting a male but the Police were obliged
to take a complaint. We also discussed relevant sections of the Crimes
Act, the Domestic Violence Act and evident discrimination against males
in general and Mr. Rutter and particular.
On the morning of 11th July, I telephoned
and spoke with Senior Sergeant Sutton, O/C Avondale Police Station,
in respect of these matters. Snr. Sgt. Sutton requested that Mr. Rutter
come to the Avondale Station and one of .his officers would take the
complaint.
Mr. Rutter made his complaint and the matter was referred
to Avondale CIU. The file was subsequently actioned by Constable Wichmann,
Mt. Roskill Community Constable. This was apparently at the request
of Snr. Sgt. Sutton as his officers were busy investigating 20 armed
robberies in the district.
Some two weeks or so after the fact, Constable Wichmann
spoke with Mr. Rutter and Mr. Rutter subsequently informed me that the
Police seemed to be extremely reluctant to proceed and he had to justify
his every action. Constable Wichmann then went on leave and upon his
return from leave informed Mr. Rutter that the Police would not proceed
with his complaint of assault at the hands of Miss Walker. No explanation
was given.
Mr. Rutter is extremely concerned at the apparent bias
and discrimination against him in this matter. The Police officers involved
both agreed with Mr. Rutters statement that had the situation
been reversed, then he would have been arrested forthwith, charged with
the offence Male Assaults Female, and detained in custody.
Regards,
Alan Sutherland
N.B. These views are those of the author and not necessarily those
of the NZ Equality Education Foundation.